Monday 7 May 2007

Boys Vs. Men and a Little Free-Spiritism

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This is one of those posts where the pre-conceived ideas are a little murky so its just gonna have to find itself as it unwinds.You know some people are also like that in this day and age, and isn't it a sad affair coz just seem to flow with whatever's happening, go where the wind blows and all- by the way am not talking about free-spirited peeps, at least they know what their purpose in life is! Free-spirits make it their goal to live their life un-inhibited by any kind of constraints and without any moral obligations.-wiki.
One of my girl-friends dropped one of her dudes the other day because he was one of those dudes who was constantly undecisive and always left it up to other people to make up his mind for him. He was not a man, but just a boy...his social life revolved around the boys, they dictated how his day was going to unwind, meanwhile his chille was over there left hanging in the cold.He never usually ever came up with any social activity that was meant to involve only the two of them...so with that said...dude was dropped despite his desperate pleas of, ' I'll change....'
This reminds me of John Legend's song, I can change.." especially these lines,


I'll give up all the places I used to go
Stay out the club
Stay home because I'm with you
I'll give up all those girls that I used to know
They don't compare
Baby I swear it's the truth (you know it's the truth baby)
So I'm through with the women
Yeah that's right.I give up on the pimpin'
Girl I'm gonna repent from my sinnin'
If that's what you want me to do
I'll get right if you want it
Go to church
Get baptized if you want it
Girl you opened my eyes and I'm gonna
Be much better for you
Baby believe me
Baby believe me


Well, the truth of the matter is, a guy can change only if he wants to and not just coz someone else wants him to...so, no matter how good his chic looks like, or how mind-blowing the shag is...he will only change for her if he really loves her.

I also believe that there is always that particular person that's meant for someone, not soulmate, but just their ideal companion...and when they find each other...the world seems to make more sense.

Anyway that aside, and I don't wanna come off as some bitter bitch...but I have refer to "Like A Boy"... on the sole basis that am feeling this ngoma for its bomping, and ciara looks so sa-waah!
Like A Boy Lyrics:
Wish we could switch up the roles
And I could be that...
Tell you I love you
But when you call I never get back
Would you ask them questions like me?...
Like where you be at?Cause I'm out 4 in the morning
On the corna rolling, Doing my own thing...Ohh
What if I?...Had a thing on the side?
Made ya cry?
Would the rules change up?...
Or would they still apply?...
If I played you like a toy?...
Sometimes I wish I could act like a boy.
-courtesy of lyricsondemand.com
Now that I don't wanna leave the "boys" thinking that this was pure hateration...
I will leave you with a capture of luuuvvvvvvvvvv, and peace!

As I digress much further, coz I can feel some dudes preparing ammo coz of this post, I just found out that I have only 6.16Gb of music to brag about while one of my "buddies", The Aegeus was recently boasting about his "100Gb and still growing collection of music." Naskia ka-waruuuuuu!

Enyewe, am spell-bound. When I kuja back to Kenya, I'm a girl with a mi-shoni: to INVADE your itunes music and 'nyak' all the tunes it has to offer! Aegeus...you have been warneD!

Then again to add insult to injury, I have all the crappy songs the Sister Scissors (band-name derived from a sex-style!) , have to offer to the world, except the one that I love listening to on radio, I don't feel like dancing...

So itunes, here I come! Doo-di-la-ding!


3 comments:

Acolyte said...

I'll Change!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I applaud Aegeus on the size of his collection, I do hope it is all good stuff because I want to raid him too!

Anonymous said...

Change? I can change! I think. I pose the question to you lil sis "if i change for you am i the same person that you met and fell in like with?"

We shall discuss the details of raiding my collection, barter trade sister, works every time. :-)

Jo said...

@ Acolyte on change,

Yeah, yeah...Haven't we heard that a zillion times before, such that it has become a tune we bomp our heads to!

On Aegeus' Swelling Music Collection, We are officially going to be partners in crime!

@ Aegeus on change,

Its all about self-improvement,bro.

Often, when peeps hook up, they are always "perfect in each other's eyes".Lakini give them the first couple of months and stuff starts creeping out of the wood-work and that's when the drama starts!

My advice is that people should not always rush into relationships and anything else for that matter. Take your time to assess the other individual before you decide to plunge head-first into a relationship with them.At least then you will have braced yourself for any surprises* along the way and you will be more accepting of their short-comings.

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